New Year's Resolutions
January 4, 2008
by Nate
New Year's Resolutions were trite before my conception and rearing were ever dreamed of, so I won't waste time apologizing for continuing to engage in this traditional and traditionally shallow exercise of planned self-improvement. A can-do spirit of small and practical steps to personal betterment strikes me as a positive aspect of our culture, even if it inevitably entails vast amounts of failure and no small amount of silliness. (Hm... I think I just wasted time apologizing.) I will, at least, put my list after the cut/jump/read-more-link to save the unwary.
- Recognize that becoming better requires incremental change, which will inevitably involve failure. Do not use failures as an excuse to abandon the development of new habits.
- Wake up earlier in the morning. Wake up by at least 7am. Even if I use the time between then and my departure for work just to drink coffee and sit at the computer, I need to interrupt the happiness of drowsiness and procrastination that getting up late encourages.
- Find at least one thing to help out with at church that isn't easy.
- Keep exercising with HB. Begin addition of cardiovascular exercise.
- Give up all video games except Puzzle Pirates and Pet Dragons on Facebook. Both are essentially limited. In the same time that I now use for video games, either 1) watch a movie (NOT a recorded TV show), 2) read a book, or 3) work on something web development related.
- Only ever watch a recorded TV show if it's with Rebekah. This should limit my ability to waste time by myself.
- Reign in my pronouncements of judgment. Sure, I like to make jokes about how judgmental I am, but I also tread a bit too hard on the side of self-righteousness and over-confidence.
- Take seriously the idea that some of the most important truths in the world are things I don't yet believe.
- Work on my book.
- Get the blog working well and blog 2-3 times a week.


Comments
On January 4 at 8'09 PM
, Moss wrote:
Recognize that becoming better requires incremental change, which will inevitably involve failure. Do not use failures as an excuse to abandon the development of new habits.
This may be less a resolution than a meta-resolution, but regardless, it is one of the best things to recognize. It’s a lesson I keep relearning.
Also, I’d like to adopt numbers 8 and 10 as resolutions of my own, too.
On January 8 at 7'21 AM
, Erika wrote:
What sort of book?
On January 9 at 11'21 AM
, Nate wrote:
Moss: Thanks for the solidarity! I also agree with your recategorization of my first resolution. But “meta” is rather like salt, in my opinion: almost everything tastes better with a healthy dash of it.
Erika: It’s a young-adult novel (kinda) about a pastor’s kid in an Evangelical church. It’s about Christianity and freedom and all that jazz. I wrote half of it (about 120 pages) while I was in Cameroon, then abruptly ran out of inspiration. But I’ve been thinking about it ever since and want to take it up again.